Luis and I were on our way for our first cruise trip when our McAllen to Dallas flight was moved to a later time. We arrived at the airport around 0530; our boarding time was 0600. I didn't try to amend because it's our fault that we were late. So we ended up discussing arguments that we are not supposed to have. I'm going to share these with you and may this be a lesson to couples out there planning their travels.Will avoid these next time!
Sometimes it all starts with this: "It's because you woke up late." And after a while you'll track everything you did, who did them first, who chewed their food last, who chose the departure time, and so on. The thing about being late is it messes up with your planning. If you're like me whose demands to stick to schedule are on the roof, better prepare everything ahead of time, including your partner's to-do list. This way, you'll be able to keep track both of your checklists and foresee delays.
We are guilty of this one. No matter how you list everything, something just slips your mind. In our case, it's the locks for our luggage. The stressful part is when you already mentioned about it and neither of you acts on it as soon as you remember. Small things like this pile up when you don't address it immediately. Stuff you might forget (but hopefully not): passport, valid IDs, tickets, keys, locks, hygiene essentials especially wipes, chargers, memory banks/storage, cash, cards, pen, gum. These are small yet essential things. Because who forget their OOTD and accessories for the whole trip?
3. Where to eat
He wants chicken. I want burgers. He chooses Popeyes. I insists going to TGIF. The thing about compromise is it has limits. And hunger is the one limiting it. Nobody, just nobody, can beat a gurgling tummy and tired feet. The solution that we came up with is to order food that we want and eat it in one place. And since we both want to be fair, we opted eating on a chair, with different meals, but together. We shared, too! It made us realize our differences in terms of preferences, and eating together makes the arguments go away. Compromise can be given by one or shared by two. We chose the latter.
Alternating in paying meals and other spends is our thing. Traveling makes it look too much and too frequent. If you don't have 'partnered savings' like us, it's just right to agree on how much to spend for the whole travel. Say 500 USD each for pocket money, you don't really need to keep track who's paying for what because at the end of the day, you paid equally. Maybe we'll consider what other couples do, like save before the trip. But we're used to saving separately, hmm who knows. Must be worth a try.
Luis isn't really fond of taking pictures in general while I take tons of photos when traveling or going someplace special. I already told him it's for collecting moments that we can reminisce when we get older, and he told me he's okay with that, but not frequent selfies. Since I don't really do selfies a lot, most of our travel photos are two of us sharing quiet times, goofing around, and some overrated couple shots with a tourist-y backdrop, or like our featured image here with a creative twist. It's a matter of agreement on this case. Whichever I like mostly, and I'm happy we had agreed on something. He's pretty supportive when it comes to doing something I passionately love. So there.
6. Last-minute stops
I usually am the more risk-taker type than him. Some days I'll just ask him to go to South Padre without any plans at all, and some days I succeed on forcing a getaway. However, there are times when he just won't easily give in especially if he's the one doing the long, long drive. In this scenario, we usually do the talk: weighing in pros and cons, expenses, tightness of the schedule.
7. Schedule changes
There are events you can't control: weather, delays in flights, cancellation of bookings, etc. But there are situations where one's sense of time and perception is the one getting in the way. Moods for example. "I'm not in the mood for" is usually not a good start of a sentence during the course of your adventure. I always tell Luis that once we go all in for a travel, our moods should be in sync with our activities. Sure there are days that Lazy song is your theme song, but you can always set it aside so you can live "in the moment."
8. Mood swings
I have my own share of mood swings while waiting to board, experiencing traffic, and the like. You see, I don't like to wait. I admit that even when I'm not on my period, my decisions are random, and sometimes very erratic. Luis already knows me and my knack for anger burst. I can blame it on my hormones and being a female but the feminists would refute my claims, so I'm just going to own it. I blame myself for having uncontrollable moods. Sometimes I go from to real quick and Luis would just stare at me, not knowing what to do, or trying to figure out whether I'm serious or not. I'll give him the trophy for being the most patient and understanding man on earth for this one! As for my adjustments, I try my best not to get mad as often as I usually do. May the heavens help me on this one.
9. Stress. 10. Another stress
Traveling can be a lot stressful than you think. Like most healthy couples, arguments will come at one point or another, unexpectedly, or in a whim. You can't even summarize it in one post, but if you have an end game in mind, everything will fall into place. Either you'll think about the stresses and let them eat you and your whole trip or just laugh at them and throw them at the sea, on the road, in the sky, wherever you'd want. After all, you decided to travel to have fun and forget your everyday worries. So, what's your end game? To argue then argue some more or to argue then resolve the issue as quickly as possible? Remember, communication is the key to every relationship. Your travel buddy might not be your special someone; it can be your best friend, sibling, or a one-time friend from strangers pool. However you throw and resolve your arguments, your travel experience will solely depend on how you handle yourself, with all the stresses in the world.
1. Don't waste time
One major reason you don't have enough time to explore is you don't know where to go, and when you finally figure out where to go, you're lost in the middle of the city because GPS is messing with your strolling. What to do? Bring a map! This is one of the oldest tricks in the world of traveling. Just because Google Maps and Waze are available doesn't mean these apps are your only options. Maps don't run out of battery, and don't tell me it's not instagrammable because they're hella cool. I found this Riverwalk Map online, and it's very useful!
2. Invest in lodging
Location is everything. During peak season, finding the perfect parking slot can be dreadful, but if your hotel is just a walk away from the places you want to go, you're already hitting the birds with one stone! Saves you gas, no hassle, and a lot more enjoyable. Don't miss the walking crowd. If you're lucky enough, you'll be able to listen to serenading musicians near the river, free of charge! We went to Westin Hotel and we're more than impressed. Elegant inside, and the welcoming crew is very helpful. And what's more inviting than a soft bed waiting for you after a tiring but fun stroll?
3. Save your greens
Why buy the whole crop when you can get the same one on a cheaper price? Coupons are going to make your savings happy while still enjoying the best picks in town. Read articles from your go-to travel magazines and you can find amazing deals. Search the web for discounts and awesome sales. Most perks are online, so surf all the way. Imagine, just by reading this article, you got a set of coupons! Thank you for the sponsors 🙂 Get some scissors, you guys!
4. Go on tours
You'll never run out of options when choosing what tour is best for your taste. If you want a romantic dinner on a floating boat, you can try cruise tours that are offered by seasoned musicians near the river. If you're more of the outgoing type, I recommend inquiring SegCity Segway Tours. Aside from adding fun history lesson to your San Antonio visit, they assure you of safe service and super slick squad. These rollers are easy to use, and the experience they offer is undeniably one of the most worthy tours you can go on.
5. Close your eyes and don't forget the camera!
While walking under the blanket of lights covering the Riverwalk, watch your pace. It's easy to get carried away with the fast crowd and be one with the flowing river. But take some pauses. Look up and feel the breeze. Watch those little geese and ducks as they wiggle their bodies. Stare at the big trunks of trees guarding the flowing water. If you're attentive enough, you may find a school of tiny fish caught under those floating rides, and if you see them, resist the urge to shoo them away. Some people are also enjoying the quiet. Charge your camera and take pictures! Memories are treasures, and Riverwalk holds the chest.
Hope you find this post helpful! Enjoy your Riverwalk visit! 🙂
1. Biga on the Banks
Great unique restaurant where you can enjoy an exceptional dinner on the balcony overlooking the river! Suggested by a business associate, this is an upscale experience of game meat. Nice wine selection, excellent apps (jerk scallops with grits), grapefruit salad and lamb. Pro tip: Take full advantage of their 4 course dinner with wine pairing.
Every item is prepared with creativity and superb execution. Lovely atmosphere. A great place for a special evening. Food and service were excellent. Portions aren't overwhelming like most restaurants. Wedge salad was crisp and fresh. Scallops are delicious. Beef tenderloin was amazing and the potato gratin was very good. Key lime pie will melt in your mouth! Pro tip: Make reservations, this place isn't very large and fills up quickly.
3. Chama Gaucha Brazilian Steakhouse
This is a typical Brazilian steakhouse in which they come and serve the meat at your table. There is a large salad, cold meats and a variety of cheeses area. Staff are amazing and super friendly. Great atmosphere for business meetings, date or just commemorating a birthday. Pro tip: Don't waste too much plate space on salads since it will fill your belly and you won't have enough space left to try everything.
4. Wildfish Seafood Grill
This is one place where they know their seafood. They cook everything the right way, bringing all the flavors together. The shrimp dishes are cooked to perfection, still crunchy but cooked all the way. The swordfish which can easily be overcooked was done perfectly. The only thing negative thing about this place is the noise. Because it is very popular, it is also a very noisy place to dine. If you want a quiet place to dine, this is not the place. Pro tip: Ask for Chef's selection, and try their Bananas Foster.
5. The River edge's Cafe
If you Go to the old established Hilton Hotel at the Riverwalk, you will find this very special place where you can get excellent cocktails! It's a little bit outside the Center of the City walk, so it is not packed like many other places. Great mexican food, delicious guacamole as starter. The atmosphere is so inviting and a fun place to people watch. Pro tip: Try their Mac and cheese because it's a spot on! Their Chicken and grits, too!
There are many other food places that you can try in SA, but these five are dear to me! Oh wait, don't forget to visit Tower of the Americas! It is quite expensive but the view is just spectacular. Wouldn't trade that for anything, especially when it's dinner with my boyfie. 🙂
Culture is rich in this southern corner of Texas Triangle. I have toured San Antonio more than any other big cities composing Lone Star State because I just can't get enough of this place! It welcomes you with colorful autumn trees and European-inspired architectures, all while meeting a culturally diverse community of warm people. Who wouldn't want long walks under the iconic umbrellas at Riverwalk? Or have a fancy dinner, 750 feet from the ground, in a revolving restaurant at Tower of the Americas? These are just two of my favorites. Here are my top 5 reasons why you should visit San Antonio:
San Antonio's culinary landscape is a haven for foodies who seek great dining experience. The city offers a handful of taste fusions, cocktail bars, and truckside culinary buffet that will introduce you to adventurous cuisine and bold flavors. Whether you fancy Tex-Mex or Greek, they have a tasteful list to keep your gourmand going. Click here for must-try food places.
2. Heritage sites
Just like people, cities have personalities. And honestly, San Antonio has a unique and remarkable trait- it is a blend of traditions that were passed from one generation to another. From Mexicans colonizing the city to Asians and Africans touring around, each culture had touched this place in every historical way. Museum and galleries are endless, performing arts is a treasure, and what more? This city is where the great Alamo can be found. I personally enjoyed the audio tour in this historic landmark; it was comprehensive and informative in all angles.
A full-blast hangout night in San Antonio is like no other. Latin rhythms will make you shake your hips in the middle of Main Plaza, and hypnotize you to rock the dance floor together with other friendly faces in boots and cowboy hats. Music is alive in this place all year round, especially when the sun goes down. If you think the day is over, it's just the start of total jazz fun at Graham Central Station. Don't miss the entertainment scene because whatever your mood is, San Antonio got you covered.
San Antonio is on the edge of Texas Hill County and you know what this means? This means scenic terrains and picturesque rolling streets are just around the corner. Storybook farms and private ranches dot the countryside. You'll be surprised to find antique shops and people speaking German in Fredericksburg. Vineyards will capture your hearts too. Pro tip: Follow the Wine and Wildflower Trail in April or the Texas Wine Month Trail in October to sample some of the award-winning vintages produced by more than 30 regional wineries. Hill Country isn't a hotspot for wine connoisseurs for nothing.
San Antonio's perfect sunny weather is just an icing on the cake for every sports participant and fanatic out there. I am very lucky to catch some hoop action from five-time world champion San Antonio Spurs. Oh boy did I scream each time they score over Cavaliers, such a reliving moment! I'd watch it again in a heartbeat. Race cars are also a hit as Formula 1 brings more racing enthusiasts in the city. Are you into biking and thrill-seeking outdoor adventures? Long trails, adventure parks, and strolling paths are going to overwhelm your adrenaline thirst because everything that you ever want is within miles away from Downtown. This website may come in handy for sports events, if ever you want to hop right on.
Ever been to San Antonio? Share your experiences, too! If you haven't been to this city, it's worth the trip! 🙂